I hate how age play is just reduced to cishet DDLG. Everything revolves around cishet daddy doms with their little baby girls, which has always been so estranging for me as a nonbinary lesbian middle. I've been pressured into DDLG relationship dynamics with cis men, and I've always hated it!! But the only reason why I did it anyways was bc of comphet and also fake sugar daddies leading me on when I was a sex worker.

I felt like I could never properly dive deeper into the age play community because of this overwhelming issue. The only time being daddy dommed was ever enjoyable was by having a one off session with a butch over omegle like 5 years ago. Even tho they abruptly disconnected from me (assuming bc they came before I did), that was still a way more pleasurable experience compared to how coerced and performative my experiences with DDLG was. (They were also a nonbinary lesbian, which really helped free me from that)

I'm fucking DYING without an age play dynamic with someone without it being forcedhet and misgendering iufshfujik