@ibly@possums.gay @permakid Honestly that's possible, admittedly I've never been great at routinely stopping by, which is actually a part of why forums still appeal to me, the much slower pace and greater feeling of permanence in forum threads. But for the same reason I didn't actually see how active it was or wasn't, you might be right on that.

Social media stuff on the other hand, even chatroom apps like Discord/Telegram go by too fast for me to keep in touch beyond small private friend groups.