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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
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hey, i'm ibly, i'm the host of possums.gay!
just a gay middle creature exploring herself!

i sometimes draw and commission cub art, and i talk a lot about traumakink stuff!

i'm pretty open about this being used to help me w/ my trauma, so, yeah! i'm just here for a fun time being a gay teen agere tho :3c

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"plenty of cub communities hate her too" - quote from transmisogynist who loves me a lot :3c

all characters are whatever age you want them to be
pronouns it/its, she/her
pfp by @walpurgie@baraag.net
main account @EeveeEuphoria@translunar.academy
personal webbed site
https://skunks.gay
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
1y
lewd, incest, cub now also consider:

big sister fucking her little sister so hard she cracks her egg like that
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
1y
sensitive topics; discussions about rule 7 just received an interesting email, so let me put this out here:

rule 7 is mainly for the safety of this server, and it's also meant to ensure there's 0 questioning what the intent of this instance is.

MAP flag iconography, regardless of what you want to believe or not, is primarily used by people who illicit intent on harming real-world children. i've had to remote suspend a user from baraag who draws art w/ those flags, in which they also had a verifiable alt-account on a now dead instance which promoted pro-contact (read: wants to harm children) content.

to be clear: i am in support of paraphiles, they can not help their attractions, and frankly the way society treats them is horrific. but with that said, paraphiles who decide to act on their urges, thinking there's nothing wrong with that, are
not good people. and those are not the kind of people who will ever be allowed near this instance. those people are the primary bearers of the MAP flag, and are definitely the loudest with it. no matter how hard you try, you can not separate this crowd, so to depict it in your art is to depict a flag used by real-world child abusers.

there is a lot of nuance with discussion like this, and i'm aware there's not a whole lot of it here, but the main point is that flag iconography representing paraphilias are almost always used to represent harmful ideals, even if it's intent by someone else is to just show they have this paraphilia and do not wish to ennact real-world harm.

i do desperately wish there were more fediverse spaces that
don't promote horrible ideals about consent while still allowing for paraphiles. but i'm not setting this instance up for that. this instance is for freaky art made by queers, and that's that. if you want that kind of space, make it yourself.

you do
not get to demand people bow to your whim about the spaces they make at their expense. if you have a problem with this, again, i implore you make your own space.

and just as an aside, saying you want my instance to be more like ATF in the same breath you're putting into question this instance being a safe space? that is extremely laughable, in the face of that website being extremely queerphobic.

sorry if this was rambly, i'm recovering from a technology-induced migraine.
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
1y
well, this is the soft-launch of possums.gay!
i'll slowly start inviting people over, and i'll get to work on a rules page soon!

this will be a lolisho & cub friendly server, with an emphasis on queer-friendliness!

here's the logo, featuring the server's mascot, mika!
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
8h
@KittenPaws trueeee
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
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@ShadyToss @Gjall i always post there first, especially since the tags feature is so damn useful for making sure i got everything tagged

tho it does feel like nobody interacts with my art there unfortunately :(
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
20h
@KittenPaws yeah it's baraag, they're always fucking shit up with their servers, it consistently has a slow connection to this instance

posts from aethy and... misskey work fine, so -.-
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
1d
@KittenPaws i mean

:3c

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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
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lewd pony art i posted this on my main art account, but i figure there might be more of an audience for my porn here x3

officially back in my pony era. best way to celebrate is drawing porn of OCs i first made 12-13 years ago
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
2d
@u1f407dle hiiiii :3c
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
2d
and ngl if it weren't for cub porn i would have a lot less of an understanding for anatomy in general, it helps me push the envelope for interesting poses to draw... which requires me to learn a thing or two about how to actually draw arms and legs in particular x3

and sometimes hands, but i avoid hands as much as possible. as most artists do, tbh
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
2d
all my art pieces from this year in particular i am proud of at least -w-

i know my art skills have gotten better and better, as i challenge myself more

i'm a very slow learner for art, but it's only because i don't do practice drawings or whatever. i just learn as i draw completed pieces, i don't really have any pieces i don't post, outside of the few duds i have that i don't think anyone would like, which is really rare tbh

i'm very much not for the conventions of art, i guess you could say lol. but i make it work out in the end,
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
2d
"oh yeah gee i'll draw this image i'm sure won't get much attention"

it gets more attention than art i later draw that i'm sure would get more attention

i don't know my audiences tastes clearly
neopossum_woozy

(just to be clear i don't draw for "the audience", but it is something at the back of my mind sometimes, so it's funny when i'm wrong about it sometimes lol)
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
3d
@vwhiskers waow...
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
6d
oh hey i didn't even write the alt-text this time, but i guess iceshrimp.net is smart and knows to re-use media, so it shares the alt-text

neat

anyways i'm going to bed, to Not sleep for 2 hours while my headache kills me
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
6d
fucked up little possums like me have to use their brain to keep an instance like this running

just another reminder
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
6d
i have too much of a headache tonight to deal with technical fuckery, i'm not about to learn how to verify iceshrimp.net backups when my brain feels like it's being crushed by the weight of the sun
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
6d
okay i just quickly checked, i see files are updating in my backups, so i think they're working?

i should do a more thorough check at some point tho lol
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
6d
oh yeah should've mentioned sooner, the VPS provider i'm using mentioned they're gonna do... some kind of maintanence in the next week or so?

didn't specify when, nor gave a general timeline, just that It's Happening

so if this instance goes down for half an hour, that's why

and if it's longer than half an hour, assume everything fucking asploded
aneopossum_floof_explosion

(this is a great time for me to double check and make sure backups are working, i had a sudden inclination they might not be working lmao)
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
6d
lewd cub art! tied up trans girl cat! she's 12 so she doesn't even really need a babysitter in the first place, how'd you end up here? :p

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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
6d
i've had a gay cub art pic idea floating around the past couple days, hopefully i'll get around to drawing it today neopossum_pat_evil
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
1w
cub art shown, nothing new again, just another screenshot lol okay openBSD didn't give me desirable results

so now i'm messing around with freeBSD x3

more cub art to motivate me tho
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
1w
cub art shown, nothing new from me don't get your hopes up lol normal possum activities: installing openBSD in a virtual machine, with cub porn in the background to motivate me
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
1w
@trashgaylie mood lol, nothing i run is affected by PHP

though i did have to fuck around with my instance to deal with the emudhra CA bullshit lol