I find it kind of hard to relate to yumejoshi beyond a "live your truth" kind of feeling. Because I don't like inserting myself into fiction except if it's extremely comedic and exaggerated. So it's confusing to me when yume get particular about how other people portray their SOs, cause to me it's just someone else having a different view of a character I like, not something to get that mad over. But it's different for them. I can understand where they are coming from but can't internalize the feeling myself