it's wild to me that the perception the rest of fediverse has (read: people who are totally well-adjusted and have violent fantasies about killing lolisho artists) is that baraag had a CSAM problem, while pawoo... didn't???
the story's ass backwards, but i guess because baraag is more visible (because most users there speak western languages) that's where this BS came from
@Beebz@QueerAndFunny yeah, this honestly. i'm not perfect, i have hurt people in the past, but whenever it happens... there's been 0 communication about it to me. not in all cases, again i'm unfortunately not perfect, but in a lot of cases, nobody's told me anything, they allowed the hurt to persist, and it wasn't until i was blocked that i found out i was doing something wrong.
and then i was expected to extrapolate what i did wrong, instead of just be told what i did wrong.
idk what your situation is, but if that sounds familiar... that's not on you. communication (and consent, and other things of this sort) is a two-way street, y'know?
