just a general thing: don't treat fediverse like this is twitter or tumblr. you can talk to admins if you have an issue.
don't like an administrative action that was taken? don't escalate it to immediate threats and verbal abuse, just ask! if no clear reason wants to be given, that's not the same as "no reason". admins don't just do things because they think it's funny, they do it because they want what's best for their users.
if that doesn't align with what you expect as a user... well, tell them that. but maybe, just maybe, treat admins as humans?
admins have their own worries and fears, they have their own lives to live. you shouldn't be trying to strike fear into the person who just wants to give y'all a community to use.