re: about child abuse and its perception; direct mentions of CSA
@agatha @EeveeEuphoria I remember when antis used to do this back on tumblr jfnekjefljw they would outright pressure kinksters into disclosing our traumas if we wanted to openly express our harder kinks on our NSFW blogs. Pro kinkster bloggers would point out that it's not normal to normalize this, because it either retraumatizes us or makes us feel vulnerable to more attacks oversharing what happened to us.It's the reason why so many kinksters and pro shippers feel so obligated to disclose our survivor status on the entire internet now. And even then, the antis ended up changing their minds anyways going "Actually, trauma isn't an excuse to sexualize this! Get a better coping mechanism!!" Or even saying that "anyone can just lie on the internet!!"