In desperate need of commissions and demonstrating my art through trans loli nudityHi! I've been wanting to upload this full piece I did for a while now, but wasn't sure where to post behind a paywall. I'm currently taking art commissions starting at $40. I lost a lot of money this month and could really appreciate your help!!
CW trans loli, cropped nudityI drew a trans loli recently, and wondering if anyone would like to subscribe to me on any artist platforms? I just don't know what's the safest place for me to post the rest of this image udtcysudijskc
CW politics mention, fandom warsfor the longest time, i used to think that fanpol meant fandom politics?? bc tbh that still feels accurate fuycdrxytdfrcuk
re: bit of height difference discourse, pedophilia mention, TERF rhetoric, transmisogyny@PandoraBifrost its honestly so TERFy and concern trolling. So many T4T couples have a height difference!! Trans mascs and nonbinary people they infantilize as poor confused little girls being brainwashed date tall trans women, trans fems, and nonbinary people!!
re: CW toxic yuri, getting bitter at antis, boyfriends hateAntis: Please no conflict in my wholesome gay cinnamon roll story!!
Boyfriends: gets published
Antis: THIS IS THE MOST HOMOPHOBIC THING I'VE EVER READ IN MY LIFE!!!!!!! REAL GAY MEN DON'T ACT LIKE THIS, THEY DON'T LOOK AND ACT LIKE PASTEL LITTLE YAOI BABIES!! THIS IS THE WORST POLYAMOROUS REPRESENTATION EVER!!! WHERE'S THE CONFLICT!??! WHY AREN'T YOU PORTRAYING THIS HEALTHY POLYCULE LIKE REAL LIFE MESSY QUEERS?!??!? POLYAMORY IS ALL ABOUT DRAMA!!!!! Also did you just SEXUALIZE THAT MINOR CODED COLLEGE STUDENT?!?! EVER SO SLIGHTLY?!?!?!?!?!?
CW toxic yuri, getting bitter at antisThat's....not toxic yuri. What you're looking for is conflict in your overly sanitized queer stories. I can't even with these people who wanna sanitize toxic yuri too dieufhjekdsmj
Toxic yuri is a genre ALL ABOUT dysfunctional lesbian relationships. There is going to be cheating, messy power dynamics, etc because that's what constitutes unhealthy relationships. It's the reason why they're toxic!! We all experience conflict in our relationships, but that doesn't mean they're inherently toxic.
re: about child abuse and its perception; direct mentions of CSA@agatha@EeveeEuphoria I remember when antis used to do this back on tumblr jfnekjefljw they would outright pressure kinksters into disclosing our traumas if we wanted to openly express our harder kinks on our NSFW blogs. Pro kinkster bloggers would point out that it's not normal to normalize this, because it either retraumatizes us or makes us feel vulnerable to more attacks oversharing what happened to us.
It's the reason why so many kinksters and pro shippers feel so obligated to disclose our survivor status on the entire internet now. And even then, the antis ended up changing their minds anyways going "Actually, trauma isn't an excuse to sexualize this! Get a better coping mechanism!!" Or even saying that "anyone can just lie on the internet!!"
re: bit of height difference discourse, brief pedophilia mention@PandoraBifrost This is so fucked up, by their standards, my relationship with my 6 ft tall girlfriend is pedophilia bc I'm 5 ft yhcgfydsfjy
CW age play, venting about heteronormativity, sex work mentionI hate how age play is just reduced to cishet DDLG. Everything revolves around cishet daddy doms with their little baby girls, which has always been so estranging for me as a nonbinary lesbian middle. I've been pressured into DDLG relationship dynamics with cis men, and I've always hated it!! But the only reason why I did it anyways was bc of comphet and also fake sugar daddies leading me on when I was a sex worker.
I felt like I could never properly dive deeper into the age play community because of this overwhelming issue. The only time being daddy dommed was ever enjoyable was by having a one off session with a butch over omegle like 5 years ago. Even tho they abruptly disconnected from me (assuming bc they came before I did), that was still a way more pleasurable experience compared to how coerced and performative my experiences with DDLG was. (They were also a nonbinary lesbian, which really helped free me from that)
I'm fucking DYING without an age play dynamic with someone without it being forcedhet and misgendering iufshfujik
CW purity culture, ableism, ageism towards minors, queerphobic/aphobic rhetoricIt honestly drives me insane whenever I see adults straight up invalidating minors relationships and how they express their attractions iufsydiufyugh
"Sweetie, you don't even know what love is. Your brain hasn't finished cooking yet." is the kind of shit that leads to telling queer children that their feelings are just a phase. Minors are just as capable of experiencing romantic attraction like adults do. I don't know why that's such a difficult thing to understand.
Like yes, children, especially teenagers, can misunderstand what kinds of feelings that they're experiencing. Children experience all kinds of hormonal development, but I've seen adults say that children can't experience sexual attraction either because they're too young to understand it. This is why sexual education in schools is so important. The reason why minors become so destructive in their relationships at that age is due to lack of education, emotional support, and resources.
I oftentimes see this cynical POV come from adults who still haven't unpacked their childhood trauma. They blame themselves for not listening to adults who shield them from sex and dating.... But it's actually the fault of their teachers and caretakers who refuse to nurture their feelings and how to safely navigate their relationships. There are several types of attraction, attraction isn't just a biological reaction, it's also a social construct. Maturity isn't required to know when you like someone or think that they're hot uidyftsgyjuigt
Whenever I see bitter, regretful adults tell kids that they don't understand what love is, they very rarely can explain what it means. Sometimes they even admit that they STILL don't even know what love is for themselves. How can you even police children's attraction and romantic expression if you can't even define what it is either??? Alloromantic and arospec children exist. I saw a polyamorous adult tell a 14 year old poly kid in their live stream that what they were experiencing was just sexual attraction.
But how can you tell that kids are just experiencing sexual attraction??? Some aces are minors, they could still experience romantic attraction, but lack it sexually. This rhetoric can hurt aros and aces and I've seen aphobic adults tell aro and ace minors that they're too underaged to experience attraction anyways. I've seen allo adults tell them that there's no use in identifying as ace, aro, or aspec identities because it's still somehow "damaging". Damaging how?!?! For using language that describes their lack of sexual or romantic attraction?!?! Their views on children's orientations is just so utterly dehumanizing.
Don't even get me started on the homophobia. Children internalizing that their feelings are just platonic is a symptom of comphet and internalized homophobia they haven't processed yet. When you tell them that what they're experiencing is wrong or too mature for their cognitive bandwidth, you're enabling queerphobic purity culture. Even if you're not intentionally doing so, or are a queer adult yourself. It's like you're telling a miniature version of yourself that you, yourself, are not allowed to define your orientation unless your brain is "fully developed".
But when does that happen? At 18? Apparently not, because 18 year olds are supposedly too stupid to define their own attractions too. At what age can people finally be allowed to explore the own depths of their emotions and their own relationships? You don't need any dating or sexual experiences to understand when you like someone, saying "you're in love" isn't that deep. It's just a romantic expression. Love is a social construct, it's an extremely vague emotion that could mean various things.
If you want to protect children from being hurt, preventing them from using harmless labels, dating, etc is not the answer. All of those problems could be easily resolved if you just teach them things!!! If you don't teach them these things or give them any autonomy, you end up having them become dysfunctional adults when they're older. That's why so many adults don't know how to date or have healthy relationships. It's because children aren't viewed as people with their own relationships and emotions.
