for real though, lolisho fedi has so many more good vibes here. sure, baraag has a bunch of... unpleasant people, but at least they don't make up the majority of people there. i hardly see them on this instance, due to the fact the only people visible on the timelines are ones my users follow, and sensibly people here only follow Cool People™
and at the very least aethy still existing is very good, guaranteed to find good people there.
and i hope this instance continues to go on for many years, i'd especially like this place to shine for transfemmes who feel like they haven't had a good voice. though, ofc, queers in general are still very welcome, i just want to prop up us transfemmes, since my experience has always been one of having our voices being shut down a lot.