all that said i do worry a bit about how the other end of any possible conflict would be, since... well, frankly most people aren't going to approach it like this, it'll be a lot of me wrestling to stop the conflict from setting itself on fire.
'tis just how it goes, i've dealt with not-this-instance related conflicts where most of the conversation was me trying to tell the person to calm the hell down. and then, once they do calm down, they often see they took this way too far and back down. ...though that doesn't always happen and they just let the rage get to their head and go forward in the nuclear option.
which again i'd be personally afraid of happening, i'd hope to find some way to keep myself calm and find ways to calm the other party down if this ever happens here; again i want to avoid as much defederation as possible.
...all that said, there hasn't been much cause for concern as of late. this is just all theoretical, so who knows, maybe we won't have a single problem with other instances, and it'll just be individuals who are rowdy.
...my brain hurts now from trying to type this all up so i'll stop here lmfao, i hope i got my concerns and wants across for how i want to run this place
