@x ah lol, that much is true too! my moderation aims here is to just, boot off instances that aim to cause harm to users, but only with reasonable suspicion. and for users themselves, well, i haven't had any issues as of yet thankfully, probably cuz it's an invite-only instance where i vibe check the people before they come in.
but anyways, "meta" is just when people talk about... well, meta-discussions about fediverse, generally when people are dissastisfied with current events.
though usually it boils down to interpersonal squabbles turned into huge gigantic "everyone defederate this instance, one person out of the hundreds of people on the instance called me a mean name, and the admin won't ban them!!!"
basically 2000s-era forum drama blown up to massive proportions lmao