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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
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hey, i'm ibly, i'm the host of possums.gay!
just a gay middle creature exploring herself!

i sometimes draw and commission cub art, and i talk a lot about traumakink stuff!

i'm pretty open about this being used to help me w/ my trauma, so, yeah! i'm just here for a fun time being a gay teen agere tho :3c

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"plenty of cub communities hate her too" - quote from transmisogynist who loves me a lot :3c

all characters are whatever age you want them to be
pronouns it/its, she/her
pfp by @walpurgie@baraag.net
main account @EeveeEuphoria@translunar.academy
personal webbed site
https://skunks.gay
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
7mo
more transfems in cub art. Now.
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
7mo
@eri right??? i'm unsure of the whole history of it, but fun fact, furaffinity used to allow cub art! but then they stopped because the site owner became a puritan about it, and gradually became more insane about it until he literally died lol
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
7mo
oh yeah i should say, a big motivating factor for this rule change is how they don't think it's artistically intrinsic to have people making pictures of the same model over and over again

...and yet they allow AI-generated art, so, that argument is moot lmfao
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
7mo
inkbunny is a nazi bar anyways so more people leaving is good lol
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
7mo
lol. lmao. inkbunny's implemented another new rule that everyone hates? must be another day ending with Y

from what i can gather they added a new rule that basically says "don't post 3D CGI content if you didn't make the model"

problem: most people who make this kind of stuff don't make the models. in fact, this has affected people that have specifically had models
made for them, but they can't attribute the artists because... well, the artists would rather not have their name attached to this

so naturally all their art has been fucking nuked by inkbunny

they'd never make a good art-focused website without introducing 5,000 stupid rules to it
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
7mo
@Clueless @BunnyQueen tom kenny did in fact do work for powerpuff girls! in fact, he did the voice for the mayor! i'm unsure if he voiced this character, but considering he did work for the show, i don't see why not lol
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
7mo
re: lewd cub art! featuring trans girls! @puppy ngl i do look forward to seeing your reactions to my cub art x3
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
7mo
lewd cub art! featuring trans girls! just two teens doing what they do best, having hot sweaty sex


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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
7mo
oops i've been drawing cub art again aneopossum_floof_explosion

got done with the pose basically (besides maybe an alt version), just gotta draw the background now
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
7mo
@hevc ripping those panties off asap pacdemon
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
7mo
and here's a lil something for anyone that might find it interesting, here's a lot of font choices (and designs) i was considering for this instance's logo!
the top-right is the near-final choice, before i settled on what would ultimately be this instance's finalized logo :p
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
7mo
so, it's been about a year since this instance launched, huh? let's chat a bit about how things started, how things are going, and what i hope for in the future!

this server started initially because of the fear that aethy would shut down, an instance i've been on since... gosh, 2022? and i've had the idea of making my own instance for a good while before and after i joined, so this gave me the push to finally just do it.

so, this server was made! from the offset, i've wanted this server to be a small cozy community, one that never grew too big. it's for a few main reasons:

1. i knew i wouldn't be able to manage a server with 100+ people, and i want to be as hands-on as possible with any needed moderation work, so that i'm still connected with everyone
2. huge servers grow out of control in terms of cost, and i don't feel entirely comfortable asking the general public for donations (this server is helped paid for by
@Satanist , i'm forever grateful for her contributions!)
3. i've always been of the opinion that fedi prospers most when there's a bunch of small servers, and i do think that philosophy holds true. consolidating power sucks!

of course since i made this instance, aethy then flipped and was saved from shutting down, which i am grateful for. that didn't affect how i viewed this instance much though, i still wanted a small community i could curate myself, especially seeing as how... there's a distinct lack of (trans)fem-curated spaces here. it's hard not to see why there isn't, but i still think it's important to have spaces like this that are curated by femmes!

since i made this instance, there hasn't been much drama; there was a brief scare about federation with another instance, but that has been since resolved, and i'm hopeful clearer communication will happen to prevent any issues to begin wtih. and hey, i'm not expecting this to be a purely drama-free place, that's just human nature. but it is promising that not much of note has happened directly affecting this place!

as for the future? so long as i'm still breathing, this place ain't going anywhere i don't think. i'll still happily run this instance as long as i'm able to. i'm damn proud of this instance, and i'd never want to look forward to shuttering this place down for any reason, especially because i'd be pulling the rug under so many people's feet.

so, here's to more years of possums.gay!
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
7mo
lewd cub art! featuring possum! 1 year anniversary of possums.gay! y'know what screw it, it might be a bit early to celebrate, but i don't care

it's (basically) the 1 year anniversary of possums.gay! this instance's server spun up on the 28th, and soft-launched on the 30th!

i'll talk more sappy stuff in a follow-up reply, for now, enjoy our server mascot's cunny ;p


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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
7mo
it's a good excuse to draw mika anyways, haven't drawn that funny little possum in awhile
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
7mo
possums.gay 1 year anniversary is coming up fast

...i still haven't drawn anything for it yet, but i swear i will
aneopossum_floof_explosion
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
7mo
would you kiss this little cub on the lips neopossum_pleading
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
7mo
anyways enough serious talk, look at the cub raccoon butt i drew
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
7mo
(i'm very bad at keeping a neutral viewpoint in my posts, even when i ultimately kinda think that way, so sorry lmfao)
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
7mo
i think more to the point, i want this place to feel like a "home", rather than a "community center", you get my gist?
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neopossum_floof Ibly 🏳️‍⚧️ therian @ibly@possums.gay
7mo
and hey lemme be clear here, if you prefer a big instance, that's fine too. there are benefits to being on a big instance, for sure. but for a lot of us that fall through the cracks easily, they don't work out because of the inherent nature of how moderating these communities work.

that's exactly why i made this instance, and want to keep it small; i fall through the cracks a lot. i know how it's like. to both be ignored on important issues, but to also be made enemy number one out of nothing.